tiergan-vashir:

home-halone:

tiergan-vashir:

I dream of a day when the healer discourse over DPS will finally end because people realise that maybe they should just bring their own fuckin’ healer to DF if they expect a healer to behave exactly the way they want.

Seconding this. It’s not a requirement. Is it necessary when you do endgame raiding content? Almost definitely, to push more raid damage especially when a tier is new, and DPS are barely geared. But it’s a nice bonus in duty finder. You know, that place where you encounter all types of players. And you voluntarily signed up for that random element.

Yeah, it’s a bummer when they don’t DPS, and on a personal level I prefer healers who do (And I do *try* when I SCH for expert roulettes)– but it’s not the end of the world if you miss out on maybe a few minutes at worst.

I’ve always said this but, don’t force the same expectations in raiding as you do for duties. If things are going fine, and people aren’t on fire and dying (not counting a tank possibly overpulling without checking with the healer), then your healer is fine.

If you really want things to go faster, then pull your own weight as much as you can. Or bring your friends.

(At the same time, for healers: I hope they do at least try. A tiny bit of DPS is better than none at all, if the player can afford time to do it. Always strive for doing more, but do it at your pace of learning and comfort, and never at the expense of your own fun.)

This.

With your raid groups?  Sure, absolutely make healer DPS a requirement.  That’s your raid group.

Duty Finder Roulettes?  It’s a fucking dungeon.  It’s casual content where you knowingly signed up for the fact you’ll get some completely random person of varying levels of skill.  They might be an elite raid healer decked out in all the best gear or they might be some newb healer in shit-gear who hasn’t played FFXIV in ages, just came back, and is nervous as hell about healing a dungeon group for the first time in months.

UNCLENCH YOUR ASSHOLE and BYOH.

I’d also like to add that Yoshi-P has even said that in high-end raids that healer DPS isn’t factored into the fight. So the only time you need it in high-end stuff is if your trying to push for fast clears. If you are going to raid, you no doubt have a main class which by the time a new raid tier comes out with a patch, you are already in the DoS for the previous tier, which is what is required to clear the content.

As a healer main myself, I often wait to see how big the tank pulls and how much damage they (and the party) take. If they can hold aggro and not take a lot of damage, I will DPS, if they aren’t holding hate and their health is dropping, you won’t see me DPS; I might add an Aero III or II DoT at most in those situations. You also won’t see me DPS if you are a total douche-canoe to me – if you are rude and horrible, I will downright refuse to DPS out of spite to you. If you continue to be a douche-nozzle, I will then play the how low can you go game with your health pool. If you enter downright cunt level of rudeness, I will refuse to heal your arse. Is this petty/salty? Possibly, but respect is a two-way thing, show me kindness and respect and I will do the same.

Also – to people who like to tank. I know it’s not necessary, but ASK your healers if they want to heal a big pull, or at least warn them and wait for their response. Not every healer is as comfortable/experienced with them and in my experience, yes, I can heal a big pull, but I can heal a big pull much better (and possibly help with some DPS) if you give me a heads-up first.

#dps, #ffxiv, #healer-rant, #rant

A little bit of a rant here. If you play a healer class, don’t use it to get faster queues so you can DPS. I was in a Bismarck run via the Trial Roulette. If you are a healer, FUCKING HEAL! Don’t get snippy saying “are you dead though ^^” when the tank almost died on multiple occasions. At the end of the day, you are there to heal, that is your job. As a healer main, I understand that first and foremost, I am there to keep people alive. If I am DPSing to the point where someone almost dies, I have failed in my job.

So, long story short, if you are a tank, then fucking tank; if you are a DPS, then DPS, if you are a fucking healer, then fucking heal. Not that complicated, it is Bismarck normal mode, not damn Unending Coil where you might want to add some DPS to push for world first. Remember that NO content is made to require healers to DPS, healer DPS only helps to push things.

#ffxiv, #healer-rant, #healps, #rant

Salt Vent: Hunts

Over the past few weeks, I’ve noticed more and more on Balmung the nature of people to pull hunts and other things such as Ixion early and kill them before people have a chance to get there, giving the excuses of “git gud”, “don’t take 10 minutes to teleport in”, “get an SSD” or even “join a LS”, then laughing when some people have threatened to report them. The thing is, it -is- technically a form of harrassment to pull early and then insult people and you -can- technically be reported for it. I’m not the person to report people for it, but don’t be surprised if you do end up getting reported as it is depriving the enjoyment of the game from others. One of the biggest offenders I’ve seen on Balmung is Soul Jah, someone who seemingly plays pretty much only to hunt and often has the most acerbic of retorts to people.

Long story short, don’t be a dick, wait for people to arrive, not everyone has the perfect gaming rig and internet.

#ffxiv, #hunts, #rant, #salt

chesschirebacon:

doctor-anfelo:

Bara logic #21 
“barely legal” 

btw if you think this offensive to you , you probably need some fresh air and a glass of vodka , go out and have some fun 

Just because a underaged character looks older doesnt excuse you, neither the “bara world” is a excuse, its still pedophilia.

You also have to consider the concept that in Japan, where most Bara is set, that the legal age nationally is technically 13, though some areas it varies to 16-18. Paedophilia also cannot be applied in the context of a sexually mature teenager having consensual sex with another person. It’s not like the teenager doesn’t understand what they are doing. On the other hand, a teacher sleeping with one of their students, however consensual, is still wrong on the fact that it is an abuse of position. This is a grey area, so don’t paint it so black and white, different cultures have different aspects on it. You have to remember that due to shorter life spans and concepts on sexual maturity, it was not long ago in Europe and other places that it was perfectly acceptable for a 13-14 year old was to marry and have children; it is only with recent moral changes due to longer lives and so on that we don’t think this way.

#look-into-subtext, #rant