zahkis-ffxiv:

katybunnyrabbit:

Sat there one night thinking about @zahkis-ffxiv and his boxes and I find myself wondering… What would Zahkis look like if he were a dragon…

Oh…

(Well yes, that took longer than expected but it is finished at last)

This is one of the cutest things I have ever seen! I absolutely love dragons and Zahkis looks so cute and badass, I thank you very much for spending some of your time on me 💖💖💖💖 *cherishes that great piece of art*

harshmellowvibe:

dayst-ffxiv:

So last night I reblogged THIS which discusses poor representation of polyamory relationships due to people wishing not to commit to a single person. I wanted to add something to it that I thought of today and completely forgot about last night.

Polyamory relationships are about communication, trust, commitment and respect. Something I have come to notice not only in the world, but in RP. People seem to have a skewed idea of what polyamory really means. They think that they are able to go around and sleep with whoever, whenever, without discussing prior or post with their partner. That really isn’t the case.

In a polyamory relationship you are open and honest about your intentions to not only your partner, but those you find an interest in. It is your responsibility to give your partners the option to know what you want, who you want, and where you see things going. To deprive them of choosing if they wish to know that you are going out and sleeping or falling in love with another is highly disrespectful and shows you do not have the communication that is required to be polyamory. If your partner says they do not wish to know what you are doing, that is fine, you don’t have to tell them. But you DO have to give them the chance to make that choice for themselves.

What I’ve been seeing a lot of is people hiding like a coward, like they are doing something wrong. If that is what is going on? Then I’m sorry but you are not poly. You should be comfortable with telling another of someone else that has taken a place in your heart. It doesn’t mean you love them any less. But if you do feel like you no longer love the previous person and just keep jumping from one person to the next? Again, you are not poly. People can fall out of love yes, but not in the way I’ve seen in the last few years. These people are slandering a label as an excuse not to be called a slut or a whore, like the previous post said.

You and your partners need to be fully trusting of one another and the only way to trust truly is to communicate. There might be jealousy, that is a common human emotion. But if there is, it is yours or your partners job to reassure the other. Reassurance though most might see as not needed is in fact something that might be required. Most that do get jealous are still new to the concept, polyamory is a scary thing to others that are trying a lifestyle change because they can’t be without you. But with that being said, it shouldn’t be a lifestyle pushed on any said person.

I am by far not an ‘expert’ but I am polyamory myself, and have been through a lot of different situations. And I can’t stress enough at how important communication is. It is the key to a happy and successful polyamory relationship.

Truth.