bug-dad:

The worst part of emotional abusers is that no one believes you when you talk about them, because everyone likes them and they hide behind this disgusting mask of “good person.”

And you look like the bad guy, when you’re the one who went through emotional abuse, or “It wasn’t that bad was it?” or “That’s not really them.”

Yeah okay, so  I guess my experience and trust issues and suffering and validation is out the window. Or how you cannot even raise your voice because you’ll be attacked for it. That is still a way they silence you. 

Just this.